Family Business Insights
Why Mediation Is Essential Family Business Tool

How can mediation be used to deal with disputes within and over family-run firms? This article covers some of the potential answers.
The following commentary focuses on mediation as an avenue
for handling family business disputes. Many firms are
family-owned and inevitably, arguments break out, families can
split up, creating a range of problems. Handling such disputes is
also a central issue for succession and transfer. Needless to
say, lawyers have much to say about this. This article,
written by Nikki Aston, associate in the family team at law firm,
Shakespeare
Martineau, covers some main points. The editors are pleased
to share these views and invites readers to respond. The usual
editorial disclaimers apply. To respond, email tom.burroughes@wealthbriefing.com
and jackie.bennion@clearviewpublishing.com
Mediation is an important and useful tool when trying to resolve
disputes. However, whilst this form of alternative dispute
resolution is becoming an increasingly common sight in family law
cases, many family businesses are unaware of the benefits that
mediation can bring.
The process is often associated with couples who are dealing with
their children and finances after a relationship break down, with
many courts sending them to mediation to sort out their
differences in a regulated environment. However, mediation can
also be very beneficial in family business disputes. Although the
dynamics of a couple and a family business are different,
mediation can still be a suitable way to have difficult
conversations in a controlled way. For example, a power imbalance
and deadlock between couples and family members can be a big
obstacle that prevents issues being resolved. Mediation is the
perfect forum in these instances.
A voluntary form of dispute resolution, mediation gives people
the opportunity to find their own solutions with the help of an
impartial third-party facilitator. The mediator is there only to
signpost issues and the routes available to solve them - the
final decisions, and indeed resolutions, are left entirely up to
the individuals involved. Those discussions, and the decisions
made therein, are confidential.
Mediation can help with most forms of family business dispute,
whether it be succession planning, bringing new people into the
business or diversifying. As soon as a lingering issue begins to
grow and cause tension, for example, an ill member of the family
not wishing to address who might take over from them, mediation
should be considered.
For family businesses which want to make their own decisions,
mediation allows them to do just that. They can control the
amount of money spent on the sessions, the timescale over which
the sessions are held and exactly who is involved. A final
decision is never forced onto the business and a solution can be
created on their own terms. In what can be highly emotional
circumstances, this feeling of autonomy is essential. There is no
fear of being pushed into an unwanted result (in contrast to
litigation in court) which can create the right setting for a
successful discussion.
The process is simple. Mediators speak to each party separately
first, and assess if the case is suitable for mediation. If so, a
joint session is arranged, the main topics for discussion are
identified, and an agenda is created. Mediators use flip charts
and talk through them, allowing people to clearly visualise every
aspect of a potential agreement. Differing opinions can then be
compared and other points of view understood more easily.
Mediation will usually comprise 3-5 sessions, with a few weeks in
between allowing each party to obtain further information and/or
legal advice if necessary.
Should a family business be considering mediation, it is vital
that they enter the process with an open mind. It is almost
certain that difficult conversations will be had, but as long as
everyone is honest and transparent with each other, the process
should be a smooth one. Most importantly, participants must be
willing to listen to the others in the group and the mediator.
Unless this occurs, it is unlikely that a suitable solution will
be found.
It is essential that the mediation professional chosen is someone that the participants feel comfortable with. If they are afraid to speak out about their views in front of an external person, then the process will be futile. With a proactive approach and a knowledge of family law, understanding the issues being faced by the business and reaching a resolution is far more likely.
When people are living and working with their family members, it can be difficult to separate these elements and have balance. However, if work issues then spill over into family life this can cause lasting damage to family relationships if disputes aren’t addressed.
Mediation provides a proactive and cost-effective solution to ensure that those who feel concerned about work-related issues with family members have an alternative option to simply leaving or taking more serious action.
Enabling people to reach a compromise that suits everyone ensures family businesses can continue successfully without the breakdown of important bonds.